Wednesday, February 24, 2016

Life is a Tragedy that we All must Live through

Chapter 1

Not a single soul remembers the beginning. Not the beginning of a forever expanding universe. Not the beginning of a molten rock solidifying into a hostile planet to sustain life. Not the beginning of mankind or their ascension of the food chain. Not even the beginning of themselves in a dark, water filled womb.
            Realistically that is a good thing. The trauma imposed by watching these events come to pass is far greater than the insight which it would provide. But it begs the question, what if we could recall every event to the day; just a prolonged blink of the eye and you’d be back in those shoes learning that life lesson all over again.

*BLINK*

            An empty void. Drawn from an oblivion, our place where everything and nothing exists at once. Blackness engulfs our being. Muffled voices surround us in this dark room. They are our source of life. Unwillingly, we must entrust our care with this voice. They nourish us and encourage us that the world is a beautiful thing. Then suddenly, it’s all gone. Our quiet home filled everything we need to survive, decides it best to evict us. Shrinking endlessly around our infant body. The voice screams. An opening appears that we must squeeze through if we want to continue to be. The world isn’t anything like we had been told however. Rather than dark, nuke warm fluid surroundings; the world is bright white, cold to the touch, and filled with aliens. Our only action is to scream as we are overloaded with sensory input, and hope that the voice will put everything back the way it once was.

*Blink*

            Flashing through time is a brilliant notion; the ability to flash back to any moment from your life, who wouldn’t want that.

*BLINK*

            The dazzling rays of sun light shine through the dew covered windows. Tiny particles of dust dance in the beams as more and more are thrust into the air by tiny hands and feet. Birdies chirp outside in the big jungle as mommy cleans up our toys and daddy makes breakfast. It’s Saturday, that means tons and tons of scrambled eggs to be squished against our face. Mommy will try to clean us up as big ‘brotter’ and ‘sissy’ complain about us and wanting to go out with friends. We cry because everyone is getting loud but are soon preoccupied by other things. Let loose to run free in a new shirt and clean overalls, we spill our beanie babies all over the floor again. We doodle pretty colors on pages with gray swiggles all over it. We make music with the squares on the rectangle, and yank the mouse’s tail to run around the room. Nobody comes down to see us right away. Nobody makes sure we haven’t managed to get past the child proof locks. They aren’t worried about us doing wrong, we are a smart toddler; unlike big ‘brotter’ and ‘sissy’ who ran out the door when a honk blared.
            We have the ability to make mommy and daddy smile though. They forget all about ‘brotter’ and ‘sissy’ when we show them our mouse.
“Smart kid. Wants to use the computer,” Daddy says.
“Oh she doesn’t know what that’s for,” Mommy chimes in grabbing the flashing box from the counter; “She just knows it’s fun to play with.”
            They take a picture of us holding up our mouse by the tail. They laugh when we become dazed by the bright flashy light. What is that strange thing? They use it so often. What is it for? Why do they press in that circle to make it click? We take the box away from them and click the button to see the flash but nothing happens. Two months from then we will receive a baggy with us inside. A dozen pictures of little us playing with toys.

*Blink*

            Obviously not every memory can be as bad as birth, right? Wrong. Your naïve mind has led you to believe good always triumphs the bad. It doesn’t. For some, there are more times than not when you wish you had never been pulled from that oblivion; they seek a way to return to it. Life is far more complicated than that however. Struggling through every day is your only option.

*BLINK*

            Every day is a new adventure when we are little. The world is a giant playpen to explore. If the opportunity arises to bring others along on that adventure why wouldn’t we? As an innocent five-year-old; if somebody wants us to join them on theirs, we do. That’s why when we wanted to play with the barbies, we played with big sis first.
            Big sis was having a rough day. She woke up for school late and we got in her way. We got her in trouble and then she came home and got yelled at some more. She wasn’t allowed out because she had school the next day too, we tried to cheer her up by letting her play with us but she had a better idea. We were told to stand in the door way and that what we did as she said she’d start the game. The door slammed shut on us so fast. The door frame was the only thing to grasp on to, but it hurt. Crunch noises came from our hand and it swelled up red. Daddy was right behind us as we screamed ‘bloody murder’. It wasn’t big sis’ fault. We had moved and played the game wrong. She still got in trouble. The doors were taken away. We could enter any bedroom and anybody could see us. We liked this new ‘freedom’ but big sis didn’t, she ran away to her other daddy.

*Blink*

            Arguments between relatives are not an uncommon occurrence. Especially between step parents and children, the results can wreck massive havoc on the family connections.

*BLINK*

            It’s been a long time since we lost our doors. We’ve moved on. Big Sis and us get along swell, but she still gets in trouble, she still hates Daddy. When we get home from school, she cleans up the bedroom and we stay out of her way, we do math instead. After dinner we play in our room by ourselves. Maria climbs out the window to be alone too. She talks about leaving, joining an army to be away from our “horrible” house. But she can’t do that right now. She has to ‘congraduate’ first.
            When Mommy and Daddy go to bed, after the only light left on is the blue flicker of the television; Sissy climbs down. We run to the bathroom and watch as she hangs ffrom the gutter and steps lightly onto the fence below. She walks like a cat toward a chair to climb down softly and runs out the driveway. As she races to a car in the dark, we scurry onto our top bunk and wait. Wait for her to come home, wait for her to be happy, wait for sleep to consume us. We watch the cars pass on the street; yellow car, blue car, white car, blue car, red car, blue car; until the rhythm causes us to fall asleep right there.
            Mommy comes up stares to shake us awake. Have to eat before we go to school, but then we eat breakfast there too; double the yummy.
            Maria isn’t there. Did she come home and leave already? Did she leave us forever? Is she in trouble?

*BLINK*

            The Popo come to the house often. Daddy says they are friends and they want to help us. Maria hasn’t come on time lately. She sounds funny a lot and dresses in tiny clothes that mommy says would be mine if they didn’t have bad things on them. Daddy is friends with all the cops now and knows them all by name; they bring her home for us when she won’t talk to us. She tells them she gets hit and is always hungry. Mommy doesn’t like us watching this. Sissy lies about it all and people know that, we should never lie; people won’t believe you when you tell the truth if you always lie. But what if she is getting hurt? What if she is hungry? Every time Mommy or Daddy gives us a snack we bring half to Big Sis. We check her for booboos while she lays down reading. Big Bro tells her she’s stupid, that their dad doesn’t care for them but this new dad does. He says she should get over herself and walks away, not before she tells him that he’ll understand in due time.

*Blink*

Chapter 2

            Out of everything that we go through, it’s funny what we do and don’t remember. Maybe it’s psychological, we suppress our thoughts all the time; maybe we’ve come to know what is good for us and what hurts us on the inside. Why do we remember the stupid stuff though?
            I can recall drooling blood all over my paper in first grade. I wiggled my tooth so much that morning that I popped it out of my gum and my mouth filled up with the iron taste of blood. It became too much to contain so it seeped out between my lips and all over my morning paper that I was supposed to turn in to the teacher soon.
            The fright that over took me every time I had to go to the nurse, be it from a loose tooth, a checkup, cough drops, or the more serious projectile vomiting. I quivered in my little body every time I had to walk down that long hallway to the office that smelled like bleach. It grew longer each time I had to go, although the distance of my classroom from the office increased each year as well.
            Playing outside plinking cans with the plastic airsoft guns. Going crazy and chasing each other around with semi-automatics until we started shooting each other in the butt. It was a cushiony area, it didn’t hurt that much, it did sting for a couple and minutes however.
Visiting my Aunt and Uncle up the mountains is always a blast. The first couple of times I thought I was good enough to ride my bike down the steep road. I couldn’t stop and slide on the side of the bike scrapping my legs against the rocks. The lodged into my shin and Daddy had to use tweezers to go into my skin and pull them out after I had soaked in the tub to loosen it up and stop the bleeding.
My third grade year we didn’t have a teacher. She still thought I was the best candidate to receive the new dictionaries for the class though. I had to get up in front of strangers and carry around dictionaries all night.
That’s also the year I ended up being the very last student to finish the PSSA testing. It took me ages to read through all the stories and pick my answers because I kept changing my mind after reading another answer. That’s why I try my hardest to be the first to finish now. (It’s weird how students would laugh at you for being last back then but now nobody wants to be the first to hand in their tests.)
I can remember the plays in school and how I never got a leading role but I was always commended for being the best performer and the loudest one on stage. Even when I played the Wicked Witch of the West for the Wizard of OZ junior; everyone said my death scene was the best part of the whole show.
But I wasn’t often given what I otherwise should have been. Even in choir, I never received solos. A soprano one is better heard in the background to support those who can’t recall the rhythm and are too meek to be heard.
Fifth grade my teachers noticed my hair thinning. I hadn’t thought much of it then but I was still forced to see specialists. They ended up sending me to a nutritionist and they forced me to write down every single thing I put in my mouth. They were wrong about what had happened. The thought it was a health issue. They thought my deadly fever had triggered it all to fall out. They thought so many things but they couldn’t decide on just one. And now it’s happening again.
Bringing my first pet home. I had fish before but my allergies had prevented me from having anything larger. Until my teacher brought in her hamsters as class pets and her daughter became allergic to them. I bought them new toys, new snacks to try, sawdust for their cages; I took care of them because nobody else would. They were scared of being bit and now I ironically am as well because the one I had trusted and loved bit me when she became to ill to squeak at me.
Working at the Retired Naval Base in Warminster provided us an area to go-cart. We would set up the tractor trailers and race each other. I could fit under them in my low riding green cart because I was so small but the death trap yellow one and the red bubble machine had to go all the around them. It was always fun riding on the train tracks pretending we were going to collide until one of us chickened out.
Each year we would visit the zoo. Christian’s birthday was right before the start of school and we had a family membership to go. Racing around to the boxes and turning our keys. We wouldn’t even listen to them but we would get a new key each year to use in the boxes next year. They don’t have them anymore and I hear they auctioned off for millions. They almost got rid of the balloon too. The one you had to wait in line for but when you got to the top of the string you could see all of the zoo and the animals in their pens.
Laying in the large portion of the tent but having it drip on my forehead as I slept. It down poured every time we tried to go camping. It was fun regardless but why did I have to be the one to sleep in the drippy spot?
Weekends were spent down in the basement. Daddy would hang at the bar and toss us each a quarter to get M&Ms out of the candy machine. We sat on the puffy blue couches playing Super Mario Bros on the NES and seeing you could get further in less lives. The secret passages above the levels became my new best friends when nobody was looking.
During the summers after we climbed back over the fence into our yard, we would sit on our towels on the side porch and eat PB&Js. We’d have to wait half a hour before climbing back over the fence to keep swimming so we’d lay there reading stories to each other. Those times when I learned how to float on my back or sat at the bottom of the pool increasing the time I could hold my breath are long gone now. The pool was demolished after a hurricane filled it with large branches and trash.
Days of playing soccer at the middle school. We weren’t middle schoolers then; we were little kids looking to have fun. But boys are aggressive, and there weren’t any girls’ teams at that time. So I joined them, and pushed back, I ended up hurting one of the boy’s legs because he shoved me and I shoved him into the bleachers. I never got to go back to the team after that.
But you see there’s so much I can’t remember either. I can’t remember my Dad being late to the hospital with pizza when I was born. I can’t recall my favorite field day events. I can’t remember my favorite childhood book. I can’t remember when my younger siblings were born. I can’t remember Maria leaving. I can’t remember when Christian understood what Maria always said, when he started stealing and became a drug addict. I can’t remember when I became so good at hiding my depression. I just remember needing to be the strong one that my parents could rely on and be proud of.

Chapter 3

When you move up in schooling, going from Elementary School to Middle School, Middle School to High School, High School to College; it’s meant to be a time for new beginnings. You get to surround yourself with new people and redesign who people know you as, of course if you still hang with the same crowd they may influence what others see you as and you may be deemed a fake for wanting to change.
Trying to reinvent yourself is very hard. You need to know who you are and others need to accept that; not just random people you know from science class, but your family as well. If your family is struggling through other dilemmas, how can you possibly change when so much else is changing?
How do you work past the constant job changing?
How do you cheer everyone up when all they can think of is that your brother is autistic and may be taken away forever?
How do you continue to do the things you love when you need to be free to help at home?
How do you get ready for college if nobody is ready to see you go?
How do you get rid of the stress and anxiety when it builds up faster than homework during the first month of school?
How do you possibly continue to appear happy but feel like dying on the inside?

*BLINK*

The room is utterly quiet and the only sound is the scribbling of pencils on paper as the teacher writes notes on the blackboard. Nobody dares to speak a word to one another in fear of losing points. One student cannot understand however and dares to ask the person in the next desk over for clarification. The teacher gives them the stink eye but they continue in hushed voices. The two have met before, they had class together last year; now it seems they are finally beginning to notice each other. They have struggled through very similar scenarios, one as a victim and the other as an onlooker. While the scenarios are not one in the same they may still be able to help one another cope. Their friendship will grow as they make idle jokes about history, as they involve each other in everything they’ve gone through, as they stay up talking on the phone or sitting on the roof together relieving themselves from their everyday lives. Nothing lasts forever however, nothing can be perfect every second of every minute of every hour of every day for the rest of their lives. Maybe the time they have spent letting go will stay with them for the time to come though and maybe they will be able to work things out on their own.

*Blink*

Chapter 4

Freshman year. It may be troublesome for all, high school or college. Honors student or mentally challenged. Popular or shy nerd. A new world opens up before you with new challenges and new adventures.
Truman has offered many things to their students over the years. Those who wish to sing can join the choir. Those who prefer to dance can be a Showstopper. Sports teams. Debate. Drama club. Environmental club. Tutoring. God Squad. Helping the disabled. The possibilities open to you are endless. I chose not to get involved in them. Much like most of my life, I let the opinion of others and their wants to overrun mine. I should’ve played soccer. I should’ve been on the lacrosse team. I should have been a SnapReader for our reading Olympics team. I should have learned of the environmental club sooner. I should have put myself out there to be up on stage. I could have done so much more than I let my mind tell me to, but I didn’t.
My freshman year I took the basic classes everyone took. I completed biology, algebra 2, english, social studies, humanities, chorus, spanish 2; anything that I absolutely needed credits to advance on. Very little did I bother getting involved outside of these classes. I did try out for and obtain a position on the showstoppers dance/singing group. I did join a juvenile police division to further my knowledge of my intended field. But that was it. I didn’t bother trying out for the sports. I didn’t dare continue the clubs I had been in throughout middle school. I wanted change. And that’s exactly what I got, change for the worst; to me anyway.

Sophomore year. Things went even further downhill for my family. My father had been in and out of jobs since he was ‘displaced’ from his job of 16 years at the Naval Base in Warminster. He bounced from maintenance position to maintenance position because he is either over qualified for the job, too old to remain there for long, or they were not willing to pay him that which he had received prior.
Then my slightly younger bro decided he had enough with the torment of school. He has been through a lot as well. He had a speech impediment for the longest time, he was acknowledged to be of the gifted variety as are most of the kids in my family, and he takes after my dad thus is picked on for his size and stench. After being pushed to the brink however; he could not put on a smile such as I do. He threatened to kill himself so others would silence the remarks. This outraged the teachers and caused him to be taken away from my family. While he may not have seen the commotion he was causing at home; he is the first born boy to my father and is thus very significant; he did. It wasn’t until the doctors decided there was nothing wrong with him other than being autistic he was released back to us and we were left to pay the medical bills. We hadn’t even had the choice of him being thrown into this ‘asylum’ and we were going to be forced to pay the government with money we did not have. This caused further issues for my family and further dug the whole of responsibility for myself.

Junior year. Initially I joined the BCCAC, I filled college apps to get somewhere with good scholarships, I became sergeant for the explorers’ program. But then; I dropped all of my extra activities. I focused more on finding a job to help pay the bills that were continuing to stack up. I almost gave up hope on continuing my education. Eventually the ball dropped; my grandfather died.
My grandfather from my father’s side had long ago died and never had spent time with my family regardless. My mother’s father however, lived directly across the street from us. He has helped raise us. He has helped pay our bills in dire times. He helped my father feel like he belonged and we helped him feel loved. We made sure he didn’t kill himself. We made sure he had the best equipment to continue his side jobs he completed for friends. But it all went away with a simple secret.
Due to the actions of the rest of the family, we could not see the signs. We could not get him to the hospital before he had his millionth heart attack and was induced into a coma. We never got to see him after that. Hope seemed lost.
Eventually things continued. I went back to explorers. I filled out college apps not realizing what it may bring to my family. My dad went back to work. We struggled to get through each day but we did it and we still do.

Chapter 5

Academics are my life. They always have been, and I am nothing without them. I gave up choir to fill my schedule with more science courses. I stopped going to showstoppers meetings because I needed the time to work at home. I dropped Spanish classes to take AP. And I almost gave up humanities to take even more science courses. But it would have been too much. My life would have been too consumed and I would cease to exist as a human being that can enjoy life. I seem to have become that monster anyway.
Now I plan on getting back on track. I’m going to college. I’m going to be the first to commit to it and earn a degree. I will make a better life for my family. It’s a huge burden on my shoulders but what else can I do. They raised me, I can’t just leave them there to fall further into the pit which is America.
I will breeze through my four years at York College of Pennsylvania and I will get in to little to no trouble. I will work on campus to pay for the rest of my tuition and gain experience. After I graduate I will get a job with a government organization or local PD to be the part of our country that still tries to do good, regardless of what the citizens may say.
After I can support myself I will begin to put towards what I really want. I’ll have that big farm house hidden from the public where my parents can stay. I’ll have my own Beauty and Beast library. I’ll have a private laboratory for my own studies. I’ll have an armory that would bow any MI6 members’ mind. I’ll be self-sustained and give back to the community that still believes in good. Maybe even try to bring those who don’t, back.

Chapter 6

All my life I have worked to make others happy, I have tried to make the world better for those who have it even harder than myself. You’d be amazed the reactions you get from some folk. There are some who do not eat for weeks at a time and some don’t ever eat fresh piping hot food. To be fortunate enough to take a shower, to change into clean clothes every twelve hours, to be free to adventure or attend school. A majority of people in America let alone the rest of the world; do not ever experience this. It should be our number one priority to bring these pleasures to everyone. But the world would much rather bicker over building walls between countries, have court cases over who killed who, have wars due to religion. If we could just leave the past in the past and continue advancing our world we may have a solution to global warming, we may know if there is more life out there on other planets, we may be able to stop these archaic diseases from reappearing.
This is the importance of life. Not the ‘who has better features’ ‘who can spend the most money’ ‘who is most well-known’ crowds that pollute our streets.
Get rid of the expensive luxuries and help others get the basics.
Do for others before yourself.

Be a better person.

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